What is Normal?

I think it is time in our society for women to normalize doing whatever the f*ck we want, keeping in mind one rule: Don’t harm anyone (including you).

Society doesn’t normalize this. We look for what is conditioned. We default to our programming. We judge those who are outside of what we deem outside of what we believe to be true.

Where does this come from? Why do we keep ourselves “in line” with what we have come to expect, without examination?

All of our identities are shaped by our upbringing and external influences combined with our internal instincts. Our families, neighborhoods, and experiences influence us. They impact our decisions and our trajectories. They keep us in the status quo.

So what is normal? It is what we have come to believe is our standard operating procedure based on our own lens on life.

Everyone you meet has their own lens, their own internal stories that are as rich and diverse as humanity.

Society then accepts certain principles and deems them “normal” or “not normal.” (Really, we’re all just judging ourselves…

Step back. Take a moment to see what is keeping you from doing what you most desire and living in your purpose:

• Is it your fear of approval that keeps you from wearing your wild on the outside?

• Is it the shame from the past that keeps you from reaching out and connecting?

• Is it guilt over your list of “shoulds” that haven’t been examined to see if they really are serving a higher purpose for you and those you love?

Quiet your mind.

Examine your heart.

Do whatever the f*ck serves you and those you love best.

Life is short. Don’t miss it.

Love yourself. Be yourself. Free yourself.

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